How to Improve Lines of Communication with Your Loved Ones

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When every person you know communicates effectively with you, your life typically has less problems. However, there are times when it can be difficult to maintain a good connection even with those people closest to you.

It takes two people to have effective communication, and you will notice a greater degree of success if both people try to communicate their thoughts clearly. Although other couples may not communicate, you are sure to find that your relationship will receive benefits if you take the time to learn good communication skills.

Remember the following tips while you continue to develop your communication skills:

 
1. Be open-minded and willing to change your opinion.
You may not always have the time to have a serious conversation with someone you love, but you need to make an effort to make yourself available. It is important that they are at ease when it comes to sharing their thoughts and feelings with you.

2. When you can, get what you want to say ready ahead of time.
Issues with communication can arise just because you haven’t said what you meant. That occurs more frequently than you might imagine! If you take the time to think before you open your mouth, you will avoid sending the wrong type of message.

  • During the middle of a conversation, take a breath and plan out what you are going to say next before you actually say it.

3. Listen well.
Learning how to effectively listen is every bit as important as saying the right things. You might be an excellent speaker, but if you do not learn how to listen to other people, your speeches are nothing but empty words.

You can improve your listening skills by simply paying close attention to others while they are speaking. Let them finish the thought before you jump in to talk.

4. Don’t jump to any conclusions.
Life gets complicated when you jump to conclusions. You could be presuming something that is far from the truth. It is crucial that you learn about your partner’s true feelings about important matters and that you also tell your partner about your own feelings. You do not ever want to assume something because this can cause negative emotions, so it is important to know your partner’s true feelings about things.

5. Show that you understand.
Sometimes, you will find that you hold yourself and your loved ones to higher expectations than you would others. Keep in mind that you’re not perfect either. Tell somebody who’s offended you that you have moved on.

  • If you continue to hold a grudge, this will only serve to block your attempts to have better communication because your relationship will experience too many negative emotions and stress.

6. Be open to compromising.
Try to develop a neutral frame of mind that allows you to tell the important things from the things you can give a little on. When a situation has a good outcome, every person feels a sense of relief that the right decision was made.

7. Keep practicing these skills.
You can always make your communication skills better. Relationships are never stagnant, so you can always try to find new strategies that help strengthen the bond between you and your partner.

  • Always explore new avenues that teach you to have a better level of communication with your partner. This exploration may allow for deeper relationships as you care enough to continue trying.

Keep in mind that there should be no fear in speaking up when it comes to talking to your loved ones. They can’t read your mind, and they need to understand what you’re feelings are! By the same token, it’s necessary that you understand, and are open to, their feelings. If you communicate well, your bond will grow stronger over the years.
 

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One Comment

  1. Henry

    July 22, 2014 at 12:03 PM

    Excellent post. I absolutely love this website.
    Thanks!

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